SOCIAL MEDIA GUIDELINES AND 注意事项

过度曝光

Includes both posting a great deal of personal/private information and self-published sexual pictures (发色情短信、自拍等.).

“它不会。 happen to me” also known as the “Invincibility Factor” can be your downfall. Posting and interacting online tends to give us the illusion of anonymity and privacy, however our actions online do pose risks. 我们在网上做什么都可以拥有 深远的影响.

小贴士:

认为 before you post: what would family, a prospective employer or college recruiter 想想看? Almost all employers search job candidates online.

什么 we post is PUBLIC AND PERMANENT! Anything can still be online even when you go back to delete it – don’t believe the “10-second ” hype (e.g.图片是唯一的 visible for 10 seconds) that some apps are promising.

会说话的 about sex or posting sexually suggestive pictures may draw attention both from perpetrators AND law enforcement.

隐私 is a myth in social media - think critically: YOU CAN’T TAKE IT BACK!

成人捕食者

最可能的场景：

孩子/青少年被引诱进入 online contact and then persuaded over time to meet offline.

Force is rarely used; they use the promise of acceptance and love.

这是 usually not ‘Stranger Danger.’

 *70% - 90% of sexual abuse is committed by persons 受害人所知.

欺骗 不是常态.

 *5% of offenders tried to deceive victims about being older 成年人. Most deception involved promises of love and romance.

捕食者 use GROOMING (manipulation of their victims)!

            捕食者 may tart with chat rooms, then when you are comfortable suggest Instant Messaging, then e-mail, then             cell phone, and then (most dangerous) 亲自会面.

很少使用武力. ——力 is often not needed because the predator has gained your trust.

 *5% of offenders used force, 16% coercion, 3% used abduction

小贴士:

批判性思考 communicating via social media with people you do not know; predators try to MANIPULATE us into being in contact with them. They try to convince us they really care – if someone is too good to be true, don’t believe it!

Keep in mind that it is not the 数量 of 朋友 that is important, but instead it is the 质量 这些 朋友 that may help keep you safe.

网络欺凌/“戏剧” & HARRASSMENT

一系列活动 包括:

取笑别人 外表、性等.

让人尴尬 文字、照片等.

威胁和利用 物理恐吓

小贴士:

Do not to reply or respond to what is being said about you. 通知你的朋友 they should also not respond your behalf.

Be an ally – when you see something nasty posted about someone else, you can be encouraging 致受害者   (匿名 需要).

Be choosy about what you post about yourself – gives less information for others 用来对付他们.

告诉 大人在你需要帮助的时候. Ask them to help you figure out a solution

通知 the Inter网 service provider, school, and/or law enforcement when 必要的.

通知 school and police when 必要的.

Don’t erase or delete messages: keep them as evidence.

Block bully from access to cell phone and social 网working 网站.

NEVER share passwords with any 朋友, not even best 朋友!!!

不要欺负或骚扰 其他人!

你会发现你 让自己成为受害者.

EXPOSURE TO INAPPROPRIATE MATERIAL

访问 adult-related material in general.

小贴士:

如果你看到 something that bothers you, talk to 成年人 about it!

不 send/forward inappropriate material to others....你可能会被追究责任!

总体建议

Never post your personal information, such as a cell phone number, address, or the name of your school.

Be kind to others on all forms of social media.

If you wouldn’t feel comfortable saying something in front of your Parent(s), Teacher(s),

雇主, or to the person face to face, then

不 发短信、发帖或重复!

Be aware that information you give out through social 网working 网站, instant messages, e-mails, and blogs could put you at risk of bullying and other types of victimization. Also be aware that posting information about your 朋友 could put them at risk.

Use privacy options on all social 网working 网站.

报告 misconduct to Inter网 providers and/or social 网working 网站.